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The
Cedarfire Newsletter
Tools For Your Mind, Soul, and
Spirit
Volume 11, Issue 24
June 16, 2011
Linda-Ann Stewart, Editor
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"How to Eliminate Your Victim Mentality"
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Kristin Hutchings
Do you feel like a victim in your life? Well, you if you do, you are not alone. When you have a victim mentality you feel as though you cannot succeed no matter how hard you try and that everything and everyone is against you. Feeling like this can be very frightening as it keeps you stuck. You feel trapped and helpless and believe you have no control over your life. Your thinking patterns are likely to be negative and very pessimistic. There is also a strong chance that self-pity and sadness are familiar features of your life.
Believe it or not, having a victim mentality is attractive to some people because they believe it holds several benefits, such as not taking any risks in life and therefore not failing at anything; generating pity and attention from other people; not having to work hard in order to take responsibility for their lives and having a victim mentality can also feel safe, simply because thinking in that way has become a habit and "normal".
In order to eliminate your victim mentality you have to realise the pay-offs for retaining that frame of mind and also know that it is a woefully poor substitute for a full and successful life. This is a very important first step to change. It is also important to be consciously aware of your thinking patterns and replace your negative thoughts with positive affirmations. Our thoughts create our feelings, so it is vital that you start to retrain your thoughts so that they are beneficial to your self-esteem and are encouraging and motivating.
To continue reading the rest of this article, please go to How to Eliminate Your Victim Mentality.
Copyright © 2011 Kristin Hutchings
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Answer: When I get into that state (as I sometimes do), I immerse myself in books on prosperity. This not only helps my peace of mind, but keeps my thoughts more positive.
See if your local library has any prosperity books, especially by Catherine Ponder or Joseph Murphy. One of my standby's is "The Abundance Book," by John Randolph Price. There are also a bunch written recently by other authors. Even books on general mind principles by Emmet Fox are great for this.
Your library is probably connected to a library system, so if they don't have the book you want, another in the system probably does and you can order it.
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