Growing up, I noticed that some people craved attention so much that they'd sacrifice everything for it. And then there were those who want the world to revolve around them. Everything was about them and they stole the credit from those who deserved it. I began to associate being noticed to these types of people and I didn't want to be like them. Over and over again, I heard the same thing from clients and people I knew. Being visible was threatening and distasteful, and it was safer to hide in the shadows.

Many of them seek work in the background, where they're the most comfortable. They feel their mission is to support others. Unfortunately, they're uncomfortable to even receive compliments or acknowledgement. But to succeed, advance, or fulfill their purpose, they have to be able receive recognition, and that's incredibly unpleasant for them.

A few years ago, I was amazed to discover that some people considered being the center of attention a good thing and something to pursue. I finally realized that there are some people who enjoy being in the limelight, who do so to help others. At last, I understood that if we want to be of service, in any way, we have to let others know what we have to offer.

In "Do What You Love, The Money Will Follow," Marsha Sinetar says that creative and gifted people tend to shun attention. They do so to avoid being rejected, criticized, and having to deal with the hostility and jealousy of others. But in so doing, they can't live up to their potential. The seek comfort and safety, preferring to be unfulfilled rather than deal with the challenge and distress that visibility brings.

An artist friend of mine has said that if she doesn't paint and show it to the world, then she's not honoring the gift that God gave her. This is true of us all. When we don't use our God-given talents and abilities, and reveal them, then we're not fulfilling our purpose. They were bestowed on us for a reason, to share with others. If we don't express them, then we're not living up to our potential. And if we don't let others know what we have to offer, even when we work in supportive positions, then we're trying to avoid our responsibility to ourselves and the Universe.

The true role of advertising and marketing is to let people know what's available. If a person doesn't know a solution exists to solve their problem, then it remains forever unsolved. Being visible and allowing people to know our capabilities isn't bragging, but informing. We're performing a service by letting others know. Some people won't need what we offer, some won't like it, but others will honor and value it. And it will meet their needs.

Answer: We can achieve just about anything by accessing and using the alpha level, which is where we go in meditation, self-hypnosis, daydreaming or as we're drifting off to sleep. This is simply a state where we are more inwardly focused on some idea. Everything you've already achieved, or not, all of your habits, the ways you feel about yourself and your world, have been programmed in by way of the alpha level.

Just think of your beliefs and expectations about your world. You can change them when you're in the alpha level, and your world will then change. But understand, the only person you can change is yourself. You can't change or affect other people by using the alpha level. You can change the way you feel about yourself, and with greater self-worth, insist on more respect and better treatment. But it has to begin with you.

The changes can begin immediately, but usually it takes a few weeks to notice a significant improvement. That's because you've been on this old track for a long time, and it takes a period of time and energy to turn it around. The subconscious has to know that you're serious about the change, so you'll have to spend some time convincing it. You'd do that by focusing on the change in the alpha state, making sure that you don't deny or doubt it during your daily life, and taking any action to bring it about. Don't confuse the subconscious by focusing on the change in the alpha state, then wonder if it's going to happen, or dwell on the opposite. The more you're able to bring your whole being into line with your desire, the faster it will occur, sometimes overnight.

Fear can be a paralyzing emotion. It prevents us from being all that we can be, locks us away from our truest self, and wastes energy that could move us forward. Much of the fear is outdated and false ideas that we've been acting on. Fear is also a normal response to change, but it depends on how we perceive the fear. When we believe the message of it is to avoid something new, then it limits us. But when we process the fear as excitement, it propels us forward.

The author of this book experienced it for herself and developed a strategy to get beyond it. This book is based on what she learned. Dr. Jeffers believes that fear is mainly an educational problem. That we've been programmed to be afraid, and that through examining and changing our beliefs, we can overcome our blocks. The step by step instructions in this book lead us to acknowledge the fear, but move through it and beyond it.

This book teaches the reader how to become a positive thinker, raise self-worth, become more assertive, connect with a higher power, and make rational decisions. Anyone who has dealt with fear holding them back should use the exercises in this book to help them grow.