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The Cedarfire Newsletter Volume 7, Issue 7
I had a Christmas miracle. After my mother's passing a year and a half ago, I spent a couple of months trying to track down my cousin's on her side of the family. I hadn't heard from them in a few years, and their addresses had changed. Finally, I gave up, praying that one of them would contact me. Just before Christmas, the eldest of them sent me a Christmas card with her current address. Although the letter I sent her contained sad news, she and her siblings needed to know about their aunt. I'm so grateful that we were able to reconnect. At the beginning of the month, I attended prosperity teacher, Edwene Gaines', workshop. Many years ago, I heard her speak, and bought her "Prosperity Plus" tapes. I've thoroughly enjoyed them, listening to them fairly often. When I heard she was coming to the area, I contacted a friend, and she went with me. It was such an uplifting experience, and I'm working with some of her ideas. "Defuse the Power of Negative Thinking" by Emerson said, "We are what we think about all day long." What do you tend to think about all day? Is your awareness focused on beneficial, enriching thoughts or are you mainly thinking discouraging, undermining ideas and telling yourself that "I can't?" The subconscious follows the tendency of your thoughts, and manifests the average of what you ponder during the day. If the overall quality of your thoughts is positive and uplifting, then the subconscious moves in that direction, and the converse is true. It's not easy to think positively every moment of every day. I'm not even sure it's possible. But the subconscious doesn't need you to be continuously constructive. It just needs you to be more positive than negative for it to create more harmony. But many people fear their negative thoughts, and that very fear gives those thoughts more energy. Each thought is potentially creative and is formed of energy. When a person recognizes they've considered a negative idea, many times they feel guilty for doing so, and become afraid that it will overcome any positive thoughts. Instead of simply switching their attention to something more beneficial, they continue to spiral downwards, and the negative thought takes on a life of its own. For instance, consider a baseball player who has missed every pitch in a game. Instead of figuring he just had a bad game, or the pitcher was especially good, he might begin to doubt his abilities. During practice, and the next game, he'll tense up and worry too much about hitting the ball. He may recognize the tendency of his thinking, and try to overcome it. But now he's fighting on two fronts. He's concerned about not hitting the ball and fearful that his thinking is going to become a self-fulfilling prophecy. Once he begins to worry, and not trust his abilities, problems arise. Many times, the limiting, negative thoughts are simply a part of the subconscious trying to protect you and keep you safe. You might hear that little voice in your head saying:
This little voice is part of the subconscious mind using fear, doubt, and worry as a way to keep you from growing and moving forward. As long as you're in familiar territory, then it figures nothing bad will happen. It's simply doing its job, repeating what it's been programmed to do. So instead of vilifying it, resisting the negative thoughts and fearing their power, change your way of responding to them. When you become aware of a negative idea, simply say, "Thank you." This immediately defuses the power you attach to the negative thought. You're acknowledging its attempt to help, instead of rebelling against it. State, "Thank you, but that's no longer helpful," and respond with a beneficial concept. A long time ago, I learned a powerful way of dealing with negative thoughts. Divide a paper in half, write your affirmative goal on the left side, and record any objection that comes to mind on the right side, and then reply with "Thank you." By writing down its concerns, and then acknowledging it with a "Thank you," you're letting the subconscious mind know that you recognize its distress. On the next line, write your goal again, and then any negative response, and "Thank you." Continue until you don't notice any negative thoughts about it coming into your mind. Eventually, it will cease to bother you with protests, because you've let it know you've heard it, but are still going to move in that new direction. You've taken back your power. It will respect that, because that's its true goal. As long as you accept your own authority in directing your life, the critical voice will quiet down. And you can now put your attention on what it is you want in your life, without wasting your energy resisting your negative thoughts. Copyright © 2007 Linda Ann Stewart Negative thoughts are simply outdated ideas that I accepted sometime in the past. They are no longer valid or necessary to help me. Whenever I recognize myself dwelling on a negative concept, I remember that it's simply my subconscious mind concerned about me. I respond with "Thank you, but it's safe for me to experience progress." I accept that I am the authority in my life and now take back my power. Question: When I change my goals as one of my desires manifests, am I sabotaging myself or giving the Universe conflicting messages? Answer: Most people have the dilemma you do. As you manifest your desires, your desires expand and change. That is the way of the Universe, to learn to accept more of it into your life. When you reach the top of one hill, you then see much more of the horizon. However, if one day you say, "I'd like to have a Mercedes" and visualize that, and the next day say "I'd like a Land Rover" and visualize that, you're giving conflicting messages to your subconscious mind. It won't know what you want, therefore will give you your most dominant idea, which may be a Ford Escort. This is why so many teachers tell us to write down our desires. That way, we can keep them straight, and stay focused on what we've written, rather than meandering all over the place. We give our subconscious a clear vision, and the subconscious will return it fulfilled. For years, I didn't believe that I needed to write down my desires, figuring that I had them in my head. Some came to pass, the ones I was the clearest on, and stayed true to. When I did begin to write them down, I found how often I'd change them, then change back. No wonder my desires didn't manifest very often. I was giving my mind confusing information. Would you like to submit a question for me to answer in the newsletter? If so, please fill out the form at the bottom of the page. New Article This month's guest article is Six Strategies To Help Your Subconscious Mind Work For You by Emmanuel SEGUI. Goals are important to give your subconscious a plan for your life. Many people write down their goals, but those aspirations never come to fruition. Here are six of the finer points of setting goals so that they are successful. "Around The Year With Emmet Fox" Many people enjoy beginning their day with reading something inspirational. The author of this book was Emmet Fox, a mystic, bestselling author, lecturer, and one of the modern pioneers of metaphysics. In his clear and vivid style, he was able to explain the basics of spiritual development and get to the root of the matter. He's one of my favorite authors and I treasure his books. His writing is as fresh and enjoyable today as it was when it was written. This volume of daily readings was compiled from some of his published and unpublished writings. It contains an abbreviated version of many of the ideas he explores in depth in his other writings. In only a minute or two each morning, uplifted by the daily lesson, the reader will reconnect with their spiritual center. This precious time will establish a harmonious foundation for the rest of the day. These daily devotions will change the reader and their perspective on life, therefore it's a wonderful book for the dedicated student of spiritual growth. To order this book, click on the image of the book on the left. To read past issues of the newsletter, go www.cedarfire.com/archives.shtml. Subscribe/Unsubscribe Information To subscribe to this newsletter, fill in your email address in the form on the left side of this page. To unsubscribe, fill out the form below. Make sure you put the email address you subscribed under, type "unsubscribe" in the comment area, and send. |